spotlight for 12/2006

TEENAGERS!

"Teens are cool suckers…they suck the cool right out of you!" - Relaxed Parent.

What’s the big deal understanding teenagers? Weren’t we all teenagers at one time?

Are we so old we’ve forgotten what is was like?
Two points:

  1. Yes. We are old(er).
  2. Yes, WE HAVE FORGOTTEN WHAT IT’S LIKE!

But fear not! Advanced maturity has its strengths: the uncanny ability to study, research, learn and adapt (sort-of). They can out-run us, but we can outsmart them. In the upcoming month we will assemble and post here all sorts of helpful material from concerned parents and teachers for concerned parents. Keep posted!

It’s all just in time for Christmas and Christmas vacation! What an opportunity to apply the material!

Related -

article excerpts

Barna Report on Youth

Key findings from a recent Barna report prove there is a huge opportunity to reach teenagers because of their extraordinary pursuit of spiritual interests.

50% of teens attend a weekly Christian activity.
75% discuss matters of faith with peers.
33% participate in Christian clubs on-campus.
75% have engaged in witchcraft or […]

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Parenting Class

The Challenge of Parenting
The first class is Wednesday, December 13, 2006 at 7:30PM at the Howells. Two more classes will be held in January 10th and January 24th.

For any Christian working or dealing with teenagers, this class is a great opportunity. There are not many parenting classes out there — except those for teens in […]

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Motivating Your Child

From The Relaxed Parent, here’s some useful advice for parents with children headed into adolescence.
Ten Tips for Motivating Your Child

Allow your child to fail – we rob our kids of motivation when we rescue them.
Give your child regular household responsibilities – when we affirm our […]

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Trouble-shooting Parenthood

Interesting results are coming in from our informal parenting survey at Central Teaching. Are we as parents able to address the needs of our children effectively? What do the children think? Read some interesting results.

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Failed Spiritual Values

Facts on the sad failure of evangelical Christianity among their youth:

  • Three of the Columbine shooters were in evangelical youth groups the night before.
  • Belief that the bible is the infallible word of God: in 1995, only 10%. In 2005, it is under 4%.
  • Rejection of the biblical concept of Universal truth by evangelical youth: in 1991 52%, in 1996 62%, in 2000 78%, in 2004 91%.
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The Relaxed Parent

an excellent book review

(Ed.Note: The following is a clever arrangement of chapter titles from the book “The Relaxed Parent” by Tim Smith.)

This book helps parents distinguish Parenting Fantasies and Parenting in Reality so we don’t raise Princes and Princesses and Spoiled-Rotten Kids who grow into The Forty-Year-Old Adolescent. It is possible From Generation to Generation to establish The Relaxed Relationship and enjoy The Relaxed Conversation so you can Motivate Your Kids and Teach Responsibility through Remote-Control Parenting. It’s all about Becoming the Relaxed Parent.

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